My Foxy Fatshion

Click for Questions/Comments! (apologies if I don't respond, I kind of suck at figuring out how to reply to messages sometimes. I have a lot of info on my FAQ/answered questions tag though!)   Hello! My names Becca and this is going to be dedicated to my fatshion, OotDs, and beauty related posts.  I am very happily taken (so no, I'm not intersted).  **My profile picture/avatar was made by saucyartwork.com**   I adamantly reject the notion that you have to look a certain way to feel good about yourself or wear whatever you want.
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FAQ (I get a lot of questions!)
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AFatFoxFashions Youtube Channel!
Clothes for Sale!  BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME: My health (and how you perceive it because I'm fat) is NOT your concern or business. These kind of questions along with any other rude ones will be ignored and you will be blocked from messaging me again. Consider this your warning. ;)


tank ~ forever21+ (3x)

cardigan ~ modcloth (4x)
jeans ~ torrid (26)
shoes ~ journeys
purse ~ titinastore via etsy
lips ~ revlon lip butter in fig jam

— 10 hours ago with 615 notes
#fatshion  #fat fashion  #plus size ootd  #plus size clothing  #plus size fashion  #modcloth  #torrid  #revlon lip butter  #milkmaid braids  #fall fashion 
Anonymous asked: Hey I'm asexual and pretty uncomfortable with reading about sex-related things can you tag things about sex somehow so I can blacklist it it's just not a comfortable subject for me sorry!!!


Answer:

yes, I can definitely do that!! I totally understand because sexual talk/content can make me rather uncomfortable too in a lot of context.  I apologize, I never thought to tag it before.  I’ll be using ‘sex tw’ and ‘sex mention tw’

— 23 hours ago with 16 notes
Anonymous asked: hi lovely! I have recently started seeing an old friend (haven't seen him in about 3 yrs) and when we met at his place i felt terrible. He has lost a super amount of weight and i feel like i am huge around him. Is there anyway to get past the insecurities of dating a really tiny person? Thanks for always helping!<3


Answer:

just remember that if they had an issue with your weight or they weren’t attracted to you then they probably wouldn’t be seeing you in the first place.
there’s absolutely nothing wrong with size differences in relationships (in fact, I think they’re kinda adorable actually) and if he isn’t giving off any kind of indications that he thinks otherwise, then you shouldn’t either.  I know it’s far easier said than done, but remember that people are attracted to all different kinds of things and someone being smaller than you does not at all mean that you are not worthy of their adoration or that they don’t find you absolutely lovely. 

— 23 hours ago with 40 notes
Anonymous asked: don't you think sitting on someone's tomb stone in a graveyard is a little disrespectful ?


Answer:

I’m fairly positive that wasn’t actually anyone’s gravestone seeing as it was absolutely huge and didn’t even have anything written on it.  it was an arboretum along with being a cemetery, so there were sculptures and architect that weren’t all graves.
if I thought it was their gravestone then I wouldn’t have sat there.  we were actually very careful to not even step on anyone’s gravestones, out of respect.

— 23 hours ago with 28 notes
Anonymous asked: Fuck you for trying to promote that it's okay to be fat. People die from obesity every day. Don't just embrace the body that you're "stuck in". Get off the fucking couch and change. Don't say it too hard, you're just not trying hard enough. Guaranteed your boyfriend would love it way more if you didn't crush him in bed.


Answer:

You sound…really bitter and like ya need to sort some shit out that has absolutely nothing to do with me or fat people.

1) People don’t die from obesity.  People aren’t just dropping dead from teh fatz.  I believe what you’re looking for are actual illnesses and conditions which can be linked to fat.  I think it’s funny though because you people always act like fat folk just drop like flies and as though we all have a heart attack by the age of 25 and die at 30.  Brah, let me just tell you that I know a TON (like 100s upon 100s) of fat people and I have known them for many years and they’re still alive and kickin’.  Stop aggressively trying to install fear in me when I am surrounded by the thing you’re trying to act like you know about.

2) I’m not stuck in my body.  I freakin’ love my body and all of it’s wobbly bits.  It gets me around, it lets me experience whatever I want, it’s a goddamn great body.  So no, I never even remotely implied that I’m stuck in this glorious vessel or that it’s ‘too hard to change’.  That would imply that I felt I needed to change.  Also, I am actually comfortably in a chair right now as opposed to a couch, but thank you for the concern.

3) Considering I’ve been with the fox for about 3 years..I think I can get a better read on what he would love and wouldn’t love.  I’d say he’s pretty happy with my weight on his hips.  You know what he would REALLY love?  As well as myself?  If self loathing, overly aggressive, bitter individuals like yourself just ceased to exist from the internet as well as real life until you could actually learn to interact with other human beings.

I apologize that the mere presence of someone you think should hate themselves, actually loving themselves and sharing it with the world, gets you this riled up.

— 1 day ago with 1258 notes
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Anonymous asked: do you have instagram?


Answer:

yes’m (: it’s afattyfox

— 1 day ago with 13 notes
Anonymous asked: have you ever been on an airplane and if so did you have any trouble fitting into the seats? i have a holiday trip coming in a month and everything else ive pretty much worked out with myself (like wearing a bikini) but this is the last thing that is stressing me out like i have cried almost every night for the last week because im so worried about fitting into a seat. i hope this is an ok thing to ask and i hope you have a lovely day!!


Answer:

Hey you!! First of all, yes! I have flown on numerous occasions (: I totally get the anxiety of it all though.

The last time I was flying..I had an open seat next to me up until the morning of the flight. I was checking the seats obsessively for weeks and was so happy I had an extra seat. Imagine my panic when it got to a few hours before and it was taken. So..long story short, I freaked out really bad and actually started crying/having a panic attack in the airport and it was horrible. I thought I wasn’t going to be able to go and then at the last minute my boyfriend talked me into it by telling me it’d be okay. I was so afraid the person next to me would hate me and. give those disapproving looks. Let me just say that I got seated next to one of the nicest women ever and she made me feel so much better. She got up to let me in, asked if I was all tucked in, and even stayed next to me when the flight attendant tried to discretely ask if she wanted to sit in an empty row. It was such a relief and I felt so silly for having been that upset before.

As far as fitting in the seats - yeah, I do. It’s a LOT more comfortable to have the arm rest up for me and I can’t pull down the tray table all the way, but that’s whatever. I also have my own seat belt extender because I know I need one, but it’s super easy to just ask the FA’s for one when you get on the plane. They’ve always been very polite and discrete with me. You can also talk to the people at the gate when you get there and see if there are any open seats to where you could have an open one next to you. Just be really polite and mention you’re asking for the comfort of yourself/the other passengers. They’ll usually try to be accomodating if they can. It’s not the end of the world if you do get seated next to someone else though. Always opt for either a window or aisle seat. I have been in the middle a couple times when I was a bit smaller and it’s not the most comfortable, but the people weren’t rude. This is all if you’re traveling alone. If you’re traveling with someone else, just have them sit in the middle and put the armrest up and squish together. (:

Just remember that you have just as much of a right to be there as anyone else. You have somewhere to go, you deserve to get there. Also, the fact that you’ll never see these people again in your life. Even if it is uncomfortable, it’ll be over in a few hours. I always take along some pain relievers and maybe even some sleeping pills as my back/tailbone starts to hurt after awhile and it helps to calm me down. Flying isn’t the most fun in the world, but it’s never as bad as we build it up to be.

Also - if you’re on FB, look up the group ‘flying while fat’!

— 2 days ago with 119 notes
Anonymous asked: hey foxy! I hope you can give me some advice. I'm trying to dress up for my boyfriend, tights, thigh highs, the works but, the skirt I ordered is a bit snug and there's a VBO... Any tips on rocking it anyway?


Answer:

eeee, I’m sure he’s gonna appreciate that ;p
I’m kind of biased because I freakin’ love VBO. I think it’s the cutest stinkin’ shit ever.  so my advice would to be to rock that tummy and work it cause you got it.  you’re gonna look fabulous!
ALSO, http://fyeahvbo.tumblr.com/
look at all the other VBO’s and realize how much better belly outlines make the world

— 2 days ago with 32 notes
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pudgepdx:

ENDS TOMORROW! Pre-order your uplifting body positive pin-up calendar! Head on over to http://ift.tt/1pQk31m to learn more about our non-profit organization and plus size pin-up calendar.

In 9 months, 100+ volunteers, 69 models, 10 hair stylists, 6 makeup artists, 4 photographers, 1 body painter, 3 local plus size designers, 14 locations, and 19 local small businesses and organizations got together as a community to create a 2015 body positive plus size pin-up calendar. Now we need help raising funds to pay for the printing, shipping and perks.

For a $25 donation, you will receive a thank you card, a Pudge sticker and the Pudge PDX calendar. Since we will be charging $25 for the calendar alone, it pays to order early!

The holidays are coming up, so consider this inspiring calendar as a great gift for a friend who might like to admire fat, happy people frolicking around town enjoying many of the things of which Portland is known.

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— 2 days ago with 47 notes

fatfeministfetishist:

Dear plus-size retailers: WHERE IS ALL THE CUTE UNDERWEAR?!

I don’t want the “range” of “options” to be beige/black/white granny pants OR leopard print everything with lace on.

I want kitty cats! Meow pants! Bicycle print! Ones with cheesy slogans on, like “BUNS”! Pizza print! Frills! Ribbons! Sheer fabric!

Also, for the love of god, give us a range of different styles, not just fucking wall to wall boyshorts.

More things I don’t want: links to places I can buy these things online, invariably in the US. I don’t want to, and neither should I have to, wait 2-3 weeks to put an attractive piece of fabric on my fucking ass.

Basically what I’m saying is I have a Pants Party to go to, tonight, and I couldn’t find any cute pants to wear and I’m pissed off about it. LET ME GIVE YOU MY MONEY.

— 2 days ago with 399 notes